Sometimes it’s helpful for the experienced man to remember how far he’s come, so he doesn’t forget the mistakes he used to make. So, herewith a bit of red pill refresher. File this under “A is A.”
—Looks matter. Look your best physically. Get in decent shape. Dress well when you go out in public.
—Frame is everything. Always, always, always YOUR frame. Never her frame.
—Practice male headship. You direct the overall course of the relationship. If she isn’t down with that, you’ll know it soon enough.
— Your wants, needs, hopes, dreams, and desires for your relationship/marriage are important too. It isn’t just about what she wants – what YOU want is also crucial.
—Hypergamy is real. Women can control and master it, but it never goes away. And it is ruthless and unforgiving. Hypergamy’s sole function is to secure for its host woman the best man she can get at the time. Hypergamy doesn’t care about your marriage, your children, your past contributions to your relationship, good character, other people, morality, right, wrong, good, or evil. None of that matters if you are not the best man she can get, or that she thinks she can get.
—Most women are sexually attractive to most men. But most men are not sexually attractive to most women.
—A woman decides in the first few minutes of meeting you how far you will EVER get with her. If within the first 15 minutes of meeting a woman, you are not seeing clear and unmistakable signs of her attraction, bail out. Invest absolutely NO further time or money in her.
—You get one, and only one, chance with a woman.
—Sexual attraction from a woman to a man means one and only one thing: She wants to have sex with that man. Be careful here, because the following things do not meet this criterion:
Her liking you
Her allowing you to orbit her
Her continuing to date you
Her continuing to accept free drinks, meals and entertainment from you
Her having had sex with you in the past
You wanting to have sex with her
Her desire for marriage and/or children
—When it comes to dating and sex, don’t ever listen to what a woman says. Watch what she does. Or, don’t let a woman tell you who she is and what she wants. Spend enough time with her, and she will show you who she is and what she wants.
—Never, ever take advice from any woman about dating, sex, or intersexual relationships. This is true even of your mom and of female relationship advice columnists and bloggers. Throw out everything your mom ever told you about intersexual relationships. When mom pontificates on such things, smile politely and let it go in one ear and out the other. Whatever mom says to do, do the opposite.
—Women control sexual access.
—Almost all the time, when it comes to sex a woman does what she wants to do. Women have sex when and with whom they want, and don’t have sex when they don’t want to, regardless of their mental states, their stations, or their life circumstances. Whatever a woman has done sexually in the past, she did those things because she WANTED to do them. She had sex with other men because she wanted to do so.
—Even the most naïve, sheltered women know the score. They know
what they’re getting when they go home with a PUA. No woman gets
with a player unless she wants to. No woman has sex in the bar
bathroom unless she wants to. No woman has a same night lay or a
one-night stand unless she wants to.
—If she does not want to have sex with you, trust me –she won’t.
—There is one and only one reason why a woman breaks up a relationship with a man, and it is this: She is no longer sexually attracted to him. This is true no matter what stage of the “relationship” exists, whether the third date or 30 years of marriage.
—There is one and only one reason why a woman flakes on a man, and it is this: She isn’t sexually attracted to him. Corollary: She found a bigger better deal.
—A human being is the sum total of his/her experiences. You are what you do and everything you have done before up to this point. You are not what you say you are, what you believe you are, or what you want to be. You are not what you were. You are what you do and what you have done up to this point. This applies equally to men and women.
—You cannot change any of these rules. God will not change any of
these rules, though He could if He wanted to.