Men are not pissed off because some girl had sex with a couple of football teams’ worth of guys. They’re pissed because she lies about it.
Men aren’t pissed because women are attracted to good looking men with chiseled physiques and easy charm who don’t put up with shit from girls. They’re pissed because women lie about this (and most men lie about it too and HELP women lie about it). They downplay their sexual attraction to such men for fear of looking shallow and superficial. Or at least before Sheryl Sandberg, they used to fearthe appearance of shallowness.
Look. Guys aren’t lying about the fact that they like girls with pretty faces, nice hair, big boobs, firm butts, and long legs who will have sex with them with a minimum of effort. You ladies should fess up about what really trips your triggers too.
Men aren’t pissed because the sexual marketplace isn’t fair. They’re not pissed because the homecoming queen won’t fellate them. They’re not pissed because a cute girl broke up with them. They’re pissed because people lie to them about it and tell them those girls are just stupid and shallow, when in fact they’re not. What’s really going on there is that those girls understand the actual rules of the game they’re playing. They understand their sexual market values and are milking it for all it’s worth.
Men can deal with unfairness. They can deal with their place in the pecking order. They can deal with the fact that most girls don’t like them. They can deal with the fact that nobody owes them anything. They can deal with the fact that life can be a shit sandwich. They can deal with life being “catch as catch can”. They get that things won’t come easy to them and they’ll have to work their asses off for whatever they can get.
What they’re pissed about is the lying, the fraud and the dishonesty. What they can’t deal with is being told to play by a different set of rules than everyone else is using. What they can’t deal with is people telling them that things are one way, when in fact the truth is something very different.
They’re pissed because everyone lies to them about the SMP and tells them they have all these advantages on the SMP playing field. They’re told to “check their privilege”. They’re told the SMP playing field is level, when it isn’t. They’re pissed because everyone lies to them about what women find attractive. They’re pissed because women lie to them about what they find attractive.
I remember as a young kid hearing and reading stories, news articles and reports, about how Woody Allen is so attractive. Funny guys, guys with senses of humor, are so attractive and desirable, we were told.
Woody Allen is an ordinary New York City dweeb who happened to become a respected filmmaker with a bent for telling funny stories. Through some hard work, luck, networking, getting the right jobs, and serendipity, he was able to get into filmmaking. Allen has a keen eye for describing life, death, God, Judaism, relationships, sex, love, loss, morality, and immorality in humorous and insightful ways that resonate with the common folk. His talent has made him wealthy and put him in the upper echelons of society. (Or at least it didbefore that whole Soon Yi thing. Don’t miss the point I’m making here.)
Take that same funny, talented guy, call him Allen Konigsberg (Woody’s real name), and put him in a job in middle management for BigCorp in Omaha or Scranton or Bakersfield. Still sexy? Still gets to date Diane Keaton and Mia Farrow? Yeah. Didn’t think so.
THAT’s what they’re pissed about. You telling them they’re Woody Allen, when in fact they’re Allen Konigsberg – just like MOST guys. You tell them to just be funny like Woody and they’ll get the girl. Just have to have some money, a good job, and the girls will come
a-running. Most guys who LOOK or ACT like Woody Allen don’t get the girl. So stop lying to them about it. Figure out the truth, and tell them THAT – that they’re NOT Woody Allen. They’re not going to be rich or famous. They’re not going to get the girls they want, so they’ll have to settle for the girls they can get.
So just tell them the truth